when the risk
to remain tight
in a bud
was more painful
than the risk
it took
to Blossom
I created this blog to share thoughts and ideas about therapy, life, death, art and being human. I will post poems, quotes, readings, podcasts and anything else that tickles my brain. What they all have in common is trying to understand what it means to be human. We all have many selves (nod to Philip Bromberg’s multiple self theory) and I like to acknowledge and honor each one.
CODA by Jason Shinder
MYSTERIES, YES
by Mary Oliver
Truly, we live with
mysteries too marvelous
to be understood.
How grass can be
nourishing in the
mouths of the lambs.
How rivers and stones are forever
in allegiance with gravity
while we ourselves dream of rising.
How two hands touch and the bonds will
never be broken.
How people come, from delight or the
scars of damage,
to the comfort of a poem.
Let me keep my
distance, always, from those
who think they have the answers.
Let me keep company
always with those who say
“Look!” and laugh in astonishment,
and bow their heads.
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LOVE AFTER LOVE
by Derek Walcott
The time will come
when, with elation,
you will greet yourself arriving
at your own door, in your own mirror,
and each will smile at the other’s welcome,
and say, sit here. Eat.
You will love again the stranger who was your self.
Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heart
to itself, to the stranger who has loved you
all your life, whom you ignored
for another, who knows you by heart.
Take down the love letters from the bookshelf,
the photographs, the desperate notes,
peel your own image from the mirror.
Sit. Feast on your life.